Most
of us think we're being really adventurous if we use a silk scarf to
tie our partner's hands together. However, bondage is much more than
that, at its best, it is a work of art. Why use handcuffs, when you
can make tying someone's hands together so much more fun?
Although
erotic bondage has been practised all over the world for hundreds of
years, probably the best know style is Shibari, which developed in
Japan. Originally in Japan, this was called Kinbaku.
In
Shibari, the rope is used to create geometric shapes that compliment
the human body's curves and skin texture. Each knot and length of
rope is used to emphasise the sensuality and vulnerability of the
person being bound.
There
is also a healing aspect in traditional Shibari, as knots are placed
over energy centres and work in the same way as Shiatsu, a form of
massage similar to acupuncture. This stimulates the body's natural
healing process and helps to increase the flow of energy.
Because
of the intricate nature of the patterns and knots used in Shibari, it
requires the full cooperation of the submissive. It is extremely
difficult to bind some against their will using this style. Because
of this, the submissive often finds that the process of being bound
acts as a kind of meditation, where they can reach a kind of
trance-like state.
Although
Shibari is used in BDSM play the nawashi (the person doing the
binding) places the emphasis on being artistic, so that the finished
product is appealing to the eye. It is also possible to use this
style simply to enhance both partner's experiences while they make
love, rather than as a form of punishment.
Some
examples of Shibari are the Ushiro Takatekote, which is the basic
sequence of Shibari tying and Matanawa. In Ushiro Takatekote, the
arms are bound behind the back, when it is used on a woman, the
sequence also includes binding her breasts.
Matanawa
is a technique which involves the tying the rope
around a woman's waist & passing it between her labia to apply
painful or pleasurable pressure to her genitals. The rope may be tied
with the woman naked, or over clothes. There are also variations of
Matanawa that can be used on men.
Www.TOKYO-HOT.COM
is a Japanese porn site that has several films involving Shibari if
you want to check it out.
The
use of stress positions has become notorious thanks to the Americans
using them to interrogate suspected terrorists in Guantanamo Bay. A
stress position is used to place the submissive in such as way that
most of their weight is supported by only a few muscles. This
creates an immense amount of pressure, leading to discomfort, pain,
then muscle failure.
Stress
positions are used to great effect in An Absence Of Light, which costs £2.51p & is
available from www.deviancymadesimple.webs.com
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